31.1.10

It's Gonna Be a Good Year: A January Slideshow


Would you like to see a very random slideshow?

Okay! (I'm pretending you exclaimed, "YES! YES!" with great enthusiasm.)

Music--First song: Last Year by Akron/Family
Second song: In the New Year by The Walkmen

Featuring: Conservatory Exhibit, Docklands Architecture, random shots around the city, a few quotes thrown in for good measure, and last, but not least, a few pictures from our most recent trip to a few beaches on the Great Ocean Road! I am really kicking myself for not getting any pictures of Jason in the wet suit we rented for surfing. He looked adorable! I promise I will get some next time.

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28.1.10

Magnificent with Being!


Still by A. R. Ammons


I said I will find what is lowly

and put the roots of my identity

down there:

each day I'll wake up

and find the lowly nearby,

a handy focus and reminder,

a ready measure of my significance,

the voice by which I would be heard,

the wills, the kinds of selfishness

I could

freely adopt as my own:


but though I have looked everywhere,

I can find nothing

to give myself to:

everything is


magnificent with existence, is in

surfeit of glory:

nothing is diminished,

nothing has been diminished for me:


I said what is more lowly than the grass:

ah, underneath,

a ground-crust of dry-burnt moss:

I looked at it closely

and said this can be my habitat: but

nestling in I

found

below the brown exterior

green mechanisms beyond the intellect

awaiting resurrection in rain: so I got up


and ran saying there is nothing lowly in the universe:

I found a beggar:

he had stumps for legs: nobody was paying

him any attention: everybody went on by:

I nestled in and found his life:

there, love shook his body like a devastation:

I said

though I have looked everywhere

I can find nothing lowly

in the universe:


I whirled though transfigurations up and down,

transfigurations of size and shape and place:


at one sudden point came still,

stood in wonder:

moss, beggar, weed, tick, pine, self, magnificent

with being!


25.1.10

Before you go thinking that I'll make a good mother, consider this:




You know what? I'm just gonna say it. Sometimes it's scary being me. Sometimes, I really wonder how I've gotten this far in life without burning down anyone's house or permanently injuring myself or anyone else. Writing that post yesterday had me thinking about how much I want to be a parent, it had me daydreaming about wanting to give a plastic train to sweet little ungrateful Johnny someday. "Ahhh, it will be so wonderful to be a parent someday," I sat thinking, completely absorbed in my own little world. There were these sweet thoughts being played in the backdrop of my mind, along with some French sounding accordion/piano music, images of me and Johnny skipping in the park as I wondered to myself: "Will I be a good mother?..."

Meanwhile, Jason steps out of the shower and shouts to me, "Hey, are the cookies ready?"
(insert here the sound of a record player being abruptly stopped. you know, the needle on the record scratching sound...)

GASP!!! "The cookies!!!"

Inner voice as I run to the kitchen: Yeah, the cookies, doofus brains. Remember? The ones you put in the oven about 17 minutes ago?

As I stood over the blackened cookies, my head and heart sank as I realized the obvious answer to that rhetorical question I asked myself earlier is, "NO!" Seriously, guys, how is it that respectable, reasonable families have allowed me to be a nanny to their children? How can I ever expect to successfully raise children when I can put cookies in the oven one minute and completely forget that they exist the next minute? What if I do that with my children? What if I go into my own little world and just plain forget that not only do they exist but that I am supposed to be taking care of them? As I stood there sulking, I asked Jason, "Why do you suppose my brain is made of mush?"

"It's not made of mush, Tracy. You have a beautiful mind, you just have no control over it."

Sigh. Pout. Sigh.

I know what you're thinking, at least those of you who don't know me so well, (the ones who do are like, "Uhhh, duhh, we already know you are a space cadet and we are all also wondering how it is you've made it this far in life...") geez, it's just a few burnt cookies, don't beat yourself up about it. But, really these cookies represent just one tiny ant in the gigantic ant colony that is my flightiness. I really struggle with staying in the moment and staying out of my crazy whirlwind brain sometimes. How do you do it? I really want to hear some words of wisdom from you. My future children are counting on you, so make it good. (No pressure, though;)

A Christmas Morning Sunset Sky/ Thank you to Mom & Dad & God for this Love.


So, here I am, just walking through my day, strolling through my life, like today is just today, big deal, la dee da! and God goes and sneaks in this sunset the way parents sneak in Santa's present while unsuspecting children sleep. I walk outside and all of a sudden, it's Christmas morning:





And then it's like, how can I ever rightfully say this life is lame after something like that? I mean, how could I ever say an unkind word without being a complete asshole? But I don't actually think God is trying to guilt me into being happy, nor do I think parents are trying to guilt their children into being good....well, maybe a little. But mostly, I think they're saying something closer to this: "Hey, little Johnny, you know how this little plastic train makes your eyes light up and puts a smile on your face and makes you think that life couldn't possibly get any better? Well, that's what you do for us. You couldn't possibly understand our Love for you, nor could we explain it, so we'll just give you this train for now and not even take the credit for it and watch you revel in its magic, with the hope that someday you will know that this is Love." Folks, I wish I could express to you how little I know, how much I am still that clueless little ungrateful child on Christmas morning with no idea how much my parents love me. But if there is one thing I know, it is that...


This:

is Love.



20.1.10

Cats and Cyborgs are Funny!


Follow this link if you want to laugh your ass off:

http://www.urlesque.com/2010/01/19/cat-conversations-videos/

Jason and I watched those videos this morning and almost laughed our faces off. We haven't laughed that hard since, well, since last night when we watched Saibogujiman kwenchana, aka I'm a Cyborg, But That's Ok, a 2006 film from South Korea which combines two of my favorite things in the world, hilarity and weirdness. Jason and I think Chan-wook Park is an absolute genius! Watch it if you're weird.


HAVE A FUNNY DAY, OKAY?!!!

19.1.10

Paparazzi for the Non-Famous/More Than My Own/Ramblings: Have you noticed how long-winded I'm getting?

I love taking candid photographs of other people without their knowledge (whoops!) and then posting them on the internet without their permission (whoops!) But before you go suing me, let me at least explain. For one, this little hobby of mine satisfies, at least in part, my childhood dream of becoming a private detective. My sister and I used to get out our Mom's badass binoculars and spy on people in an attempt to catch glimpses of neighboring lives through windows until our Mom caught us and said we shouldn't do that anymore. Later, my friend Amanda and I would go into alleyways with walkie talkies, doing investigative work, gathering clues, making up stories about the lives of the people we came across. It was soooo much fun! I really like being sneaky. I used to play this little sneaking game with Champ, the family dog. You see, she was very sharp in her prime, with the most keen sense of hearing. She could hear my Dad coming home in our family's little blue volkswagen bug when he was still a mile away from pulling in the driveway. Granted, that car was very loud, but still, it was impressive. So, I played this little game where I would wait until she fell asleep and then try very hard to exit the room without her waking up, tiptoeing ever so slowly and softly. It hardly ever worked, I'm telling you that dog had amazing ears. Somehow, though, it was really fun for me. (I'm easily entertained.) These days I get my kicks (whilst improving my sneaking skills) by trying to take pictures of strangers without them realizing that I am taking their picture. The main reason I do this, though, is that I like the idea of capturing little moments in other people's lives. Some people may think it is obtrusive and unkind, but I see it as a way of honoring the existence of others. I've always been curious about the lives of others. So, when blogs came along I was in hog heaven. I love getting little glimpses into other people's lives, hearing their stories, their triumphs and struggles. I think blogging promotes connectivity and empathy, which in my opinion, are always good things. I remember when I first found Ruth how excited I was just to know that she was in the world. Seriously, you can ask Jason if you don't believe me. I always tell him stories about Ruth like I'm talking about my best friend. "Lesley's getting married!" "Jason, did you know that Don has never walked through a door ahead of Ruth? Isn't that just the sweetest thing? Also, how come you don't do that?" It's so easy to get caught up in our own lives and to focus too much on ourselves. I think the more we know about each other, the more we are aware of each other, the easier it will be for us to get along. It's so easy, especially in a city like Melbourne, to begin to see others as nuisances. Sometimes, you just want to get where you're going and don't want to be bothered by the guy on the corner asking for money, by the charity worker asking for a moment of your time, by the old man with the cane holding up the show. Seriously, it takes some mad maneuvering just to get down the sidewalk sometimes. But I really think it's important, especially as our planet gets more and more densely populated, that we not see others as nuisances, as abstractions, as means, but always, always, always as an end, as whole people who have just as much of a right to be here as you. So, I like to do a lot of people watching and a lot of candid stranger picture taking to remind myself of you and you and you and to get my mind off me, me, me. So, that's why I do it, okay? Please don't be mad at me. I do it because I love you.


What is the greatest gift?

What is the greatest gift?
Could it be the world itself-the oceans, the meadowlark,
the patience of the trees in the wind?
Could it be love, with its sweet clamor of passion?

Something else-something else entirely
holds me in thrall.
That you have a life that I wonder about
more than I wonder about my own.

That you have a life -courteous, intelligent-
that I wonder about more than I wonder about my own.
That you have a soul-your own, no one else's-
that I wonder about more than I wonder about my own.
So that I find my soul clapping its hands for yours
more than my own.

-Mary Oliver


P.S. This reminds me, if you haven't seen the film, The Lives of Others, I think you probably should.

17.1.10

Polish Poet, Possibilities, and Poems of Preferences


I had the recent pleasure of coming across the poetry of Wislawa Szymborska. She won the Nobel Prize for Literature in 1996. You should totally check her out. She wrote the following poem:

Possibilities

I prefer movies.

I prefer cats.
I prefer the oaks along the Warta.
I prefer Dickens to Dostoyevsky.
I prefer myself liking people
to myself loving mankind.
I prefer keeping a needle and thread on hand, just in case.
I prefer the color green.
I prefer not to maintain
that reason is to blame for everything.
I prefer exceptions.
I prefer to leave early.
I prefer talking to doctors about something else.
I prefer the old fine-lined illustrations.
I prefer the absurdity of writing poems
to the absurdity of not writing poems.
I prefer, where love's concerned, nonspecific anniversaries
that can be celebrated every day.
I prefer moralists
who promise me nothing.
I prefer cunning kindness to the over-trustful kind.
I prefer the earth in civvies.
I prefer conquered to conquering countries.
I prefer having some reservations.
I prefer the hell of chaos to the hell of order.
I prefer Grimms' fairy tales to the newspapers' front pages.
I prefer leaves without flowers to flowers without leaves.
I prefer dogs with uncropped tails.
I prefer light eyes, since mine are dark.
I prefer desk drawers.
I prefer many things that I haven't mentioned here
to many things I've also left unsaid.
I prefer zeroes on the loose
to those lined up behind a cipher.
I prefer the time of insects to the time of stars.
I prefer to knock on wood.
I prefer not to ask how much longer and when.
I prefer keeping in mind even the possibility
that existence has its own reason for being.

I liked the idea and decided to try writing one of my own. It was really fun! I think you should try it, too. Just so you know, this is taking a lot of nerve to post mine right after hers.


I prefer natural light.
I prefer not to watch the news.
I prefer Love over everything else.
I prefer a cabin in the woods or a farmhouse in the hills.
I prefer to listen.
I prefer to sing.

I prefer possibility and chance over control.
I prefer to trust.
I prefer hand-washing the dishes.
I prefer clotheslines to dryers.
I prefer being comfortable over looking good if I must choose, but really,
I prefer both.
I prefer blending in to standing out.
I prefer not to be put on the spot.
I prefer hugs over kisses.
I prefer Jason by my side.


I prefer my feet to stay on the ground.
I prefer the sound of a wolf howling or a child laughing.
I prefer open windows and open doors.
I prefer West Texas sunsets to any other.
I prefer having my friends and family near.
I prefer the absurdity of belief to the absurdity of unbelief.
I prefer not to use umbrellas.
I prefer not to eat meat.
I prefer gnomes.

I prefer Mary Oliver poems.
I prefer picnics to fancy dinners.
I prefer rivers.
I prefer getting my hands dirty to keeping them clean.
I prefer spontaneity to plans.
I prefer trees to buildings.

I prefer wonder to expectation.
I prefer idleness to busyness.
I prefer not to be be told what to do and not to be rushed.
I prefer silliness and Dr. Seuss.
I prefer that you like me.
I prefer that I like you.
I prefer the gift of words to the gift of things.
I prefer not to confront.
I prefer peanut butter on my pancakes and waffles.
I prefer coffee black and Christmas white.
I prefer Saint Francis to any other Saint.

I prefer not to bake the cookies all the way.
I prefer dogs to cats if I must choose, but really,
I prefer both.

I prefer the morning.
I prefer Democrats and butterfats and not to deal with bureaucrats.
I prefer Granny Smith apples and crisp fall days.
I prefer keeping in mind how small I am.
I prefer kindness.
I prefer to dance.

I prefer that people stop using God as a way to justify hate.
I prefer that people accept others who are different from themselves.
I prefer that people not think they are saved and others are condemned to hell.
I prefer to think that heaven and hell are places we build in this life.
I prefer to build heaven.